
Quotes and Wisdom
"The wisdom and compassion a woman can
intuitively experience in childbirth can make
her a source of healing and understanding for
other women."
-Stephen Gaskin
"We have a secret in our culture, and it's not
that birth is painful. It's that women are
strong."
-Laura Stavoe Harm
"There is power that comes to women when they
give birth. They don't ask for it, it simply
invades them. Accumulates like clouds on the
horizon and passes through, carrying the child
with it."
-Sheryl Feldman
"Making the decision to have a child - it's
momentous. It is to decide forever to have your
heart go walking outside your body."
-Elizabeth Stone
"Research has shone bright lights on what women
have always known: Dynamic systems are
sensitive to start-up conditions. Thus, a
gentle birth is life enhancing for the human
organism."
-Robin Lim
"Imagine that your pelvis is a candle with a
flame in the middle
As my contractions come, the flame burns
brighter.
My body is the wax of the candle, warming and
yielding to the flame.
The more I breathe, the brighter the candle
burns.
The wax melts and drips with each contraction.
My body becomes looser and opens to the flame.
I see my pelvis becoming soft and warm and
pliable.
I breathe. With each contraction, the candle
becomes softer.
I melt with the candle.
My breath helps the candle burn brighter,
melting quicker.
I remain soft, warm, and yielding."
-Barbara Harper "Gentle Birth Choices"
"Birth is not only about making babies. Birth
is about making mothers ~ strong, competent,
capable mothers who trust themselves and know
their inner strength."
-Barbara Katz Rothman
"...experiences have clearly shown that an
approach which "de-medicalizes" birth, restores
dignity and humanity to the process of
childbirth, and returns control to the mother
is also the safest approach."
-Michel Odent, MD
"Focus on what you can do, then do it with all
your heart."
-Lois Wilson
"$13 to $20 billion a year could be saved in
health care costs by demedicalizing childbirth,
developing midwifery, and encouraging
breastfeeding."
-Frank Oski, MD,
Professor and Director, Department of
Pediatrics,
Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, Baltimore,
MD
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